
When Sara Jane heard a piece on NPR about Youthphoria, she wrote our info down as a reminder to tell her genderfluid child about it. Months later, when Sara Jane and her partner Alan were looking for a photographer for their wedding, she recalled the story and reached out.
Sara Jane and Alan met in alcohol recovery five years ago and recently celebrated their 5 year sober anniversaries. She is a mom of two and professor, while Alan is a Scottish stone mason. They wanted to share their pride and excitement for love and life with their friends and family at The Bellevue Hotel in Philadelphia. Their wedding florals were inspired by Outlander-meets-The Great Gatsby vibes. South Stems Flowers even included nods to Alan’s Scottish homeland, with pops of thistle and heather.
The hotel’s art nouveau beauty appealed to them, as did the idea of having a naturalistic photography experience. Sara Jane explained how she didn’t want to be pulled away or disconnected from family and friends, but rather, she simply wanted documentation of the day. The two got ready together with their immediate family before checking out the views from the balcony on the 19th floor.
Thoughtful floral repurposing
Guests arrived for some mingling at the Conservatory room, which resembles a European courtyard, before Sara Jane and Alan exchanged vows. During their reception at the XIX Nineteen Restaurant, a Ceili dance was led by Poor Man’s Gambit–a trio of Celtic musicians–in the Pearl Room.
At the end of the evening, flowers by South Stems Flowers were collected by Forget Me Knot (a floral repurposing nonprofit ), who created 50 arrangements that were donated to Temple University Hospital.
On sober wedding celebrations
When I asked Sara Jane if I had consent to share their sobriety as part of their journey, she said how she felt it was part of their job as sober people to show folks that there’s a wonderful life waiting out there with sobriety. She expressed pride for every part of their story. I’m so grateful I was able to join them in celebrating each other and themselves.







































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